I don’t think it’s fair to judge anything - there are so many things about everyone’s situation that we don’t know and that can’t simply be explained to another; sometimes you just have to be in their shoes. But since we can’t, don’t - if you really think something is wrong then the best thing to do would be to apply it to our own lives, share it with the ones we love, and make someone’s life a little easier; that’s all that’s in our power.