Exerpt:
I believe that married folk (such as myself) can offer meaningful, honest and (hopefully) helpful counsel on the subject of singleness. But I also believe those of us trying to do so need to be very careful not to take our own experiences with God and dating and courtship and make them normative for everyone else. It may be something in our experience can help others in similar situations. On the other hand, God may be working very differently in your life than He did in mine.