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"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
“Ok girls, let’s just say the guy is stupid too for not expressing himself verbally or physically. Instead, he just keeps doing these nice things for you in the hope of you falling for him without him having to stick his neck out, ie. the chicken-shit way, and you thought that he was just being nice to you. Fair enough. But, once your radar starts picking up something more you should start extracting and removing yourself from his atmosphere. You have to stop letting him be nice to you because although you are not reciprocating his niceties, by letting him continue to do nice things for you, you are leading him on by other means. I don’t care how rude or nasty that you think it to be, you just have to be brutal to him and nip it in the bud. None of this “but I don’t want to lose him as a friend” bullshit. Trust me, he hasn’t been your friend for a long time since the minute he wanted more than friendship. So yeah, be clean and surgical about it. In the long run, he will thank you for it. Who knows, you might even be able to become friends after he has moved on from you.”
From one of my favouritestest blogger bros out there in bloggerland!
